This video is based on a real event, but the individual portrayed is an actor.

Can you tell us why you took a seat on the Youth Commission?

I took a seat for young people of all ethnicities, because I want to change the way we talk about drugs and gangs. Young people need to see the real consequences.

Are you able to share your story with us?

At 15, I started hanging out with a group of mates who seemed to have it all - confident, popular, always partying. One night, they invited me to a big party, and someone passed around pills, saying things like, ‘It’s just for fun,’ or ‘Everyone does it.’. In that moment, I just felt so much pressure. That decision opened a door to something way darker – drugs became regular at parties, after school, even alone. It felt normal, but it wasn’t.

I didn’t even realise at the time how quickly I got wrapped up with the wrong people doing things like that. It wasn’t me but it all happened so fast. I ended up in a really bad place.

Things changed when a teacher noticed I was off. She asked if I was okay, and I opened up. With help from a school counsellor and my family, I started rebuilding my life. Telling my family was the hardest part, because drug use is heavily frowned upon in my community. I was proper scared, but they surprised me - they didn’t judge - they just wanted to help. I cut ties with that group, focused on my education, and surrounded myself with people who cared. It wasn’t easy, but it was worth it.

I was at a party, and someone passed around pills. I just felt so much pressure. That decision opened a door to something way darker.
Kabir, Youth Commission Member

What did you learn from this?

Drugs don’t care who you are, they affect everyone. It can be hard to ask for help but the best thing you can do, if you aren’t in a great place, is speak up. Drugs are often glamorised, but the truth is, it’s lonely and ruins people’s lives. Support is everything, whether from teachers, family, friends or support services, whether that’s the Police or charities. Girls can face the same struggles too with drugs and gangs, not just guys, we need to do better at recognising this affects everyone.

What would be your advice to people reading this who may be going through a
similar situation?

If you’re struggling, talk to someone you trust or ask for help from professionals. To all, don’t judge us when we ask for help. That support can change someone’s life.

If you have been affected by any of the issues, raised by Kabir, help and support is available.